you are NOT the father...but you can have the drama

it's hard to raise children, especially by yourself. so tell me why would anyone want to make this job harder? i have a friend who decided to step up and get involved in the life of a child who isn’t his. not some strangers kid, or some girl he wanted to date; this child is related to him. many people would find this to be an admirable thing, but the kids mother seems to do everything in her power to get in the way. now, this i don’t get. why would you as a single mother, not want a man to be in the life of your son? according to my friend, this woman has done everything from lying to ignoring his phone calls when he wants to hang with her son. but when he asks her if something is wrong, she swears that everything is fine. she refuses to meet him to drop off her kid or do anything to make access to her child easier on everyone involved. i can see if the dude was weird or trying to harm your kid, but that’s definitely not the case. maybe it's because dude doesn’t want anything to do with her? maybe she is jealous? i was lucky and grew up with a slight father figure in my life after my biological stepped out. some of my friends weren't as lucky growing up. it is not the life i recommend any child to live. single mothers, if your baby’s' father is not around, and someone else is willing to be there and care for your child, don’t push them away. don’t redistribute your baby momma drama on someone who IS NOT THE FATHER.

this is gforce and that’s the nonsense.